Friends with benefit
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I do not know about you, but I am seriously just know this phrase "FRIENDS WITH BENEFIT (FWB)" few days ago. Okay, call me a nerd or naive but seriously.. I just know that there is an existence of this kind of friend not only in the movie but for real man.. Well. I almost being the victim of it. If i can say it. Because I thought as being friend is only a friend but i guess that guy thought different thing and I am so naive to realize it. Luckily, the stage was not extreme. He just hug me and it was so suffocating! I hate it. Come on man, you wanna kill me softly, huh?
So... For some people that you might not knowing about it, as I checked in some google, it is like you are being friends for feeling so you do not have attachment on each other but you would do physical action like you are in a relationship or even the extreme stage. I just got know about it after I did a surfing and after that guy too! Kay.. I did not know how people thought about this matter but seriously, you did such people did in a relationship and there is not attachment between you guys, so means you just being a third wheel if one of you have a girl or boyfriend. For me, it is really hurting to each others. I do not think you feel numb right after you have touched each others and those hugs and kisses?
Well.. I am a lady, as in my point of view, girls are probably more disadvantage because if anything happened you are the one not virgin and could be pregnant too, and if you miscarry your baby, I bet you will be cursed in your rest of life. And what does it for? A short of fun? It is not worth at all. Well, I didnt want to blame guys too, because I read that some girls are the one who wanna do FWB relationship too. And some guys do have the soft feeling after doing such. Of course you do, if not you are not human.
I just can not believe that this kind of relationship exists in this world and surrounds me, I am just not realizing it until then. It is just my advice, if you want to do such, I guess it is just a better idea when you are in a marriage relationship or legal relationship. Well, it is good for both of you tho. He or She will not run away and broke you up easily after he or she has finished used you as for a fun. Although you can say the fun comes from both sides, but there should be another side that control it.
I can say, girl is really hard to be controlled about this kind of thing, they can be overboard than guys when they are doing "it". I think guys would be able to control their desire better than girls. Ask me why? I have no idea! HAHAHA. It is just as I know it is. So maybe it is better that the man is the one control it and able to take care of their girls. Not the one that pulled her into you deeper and make it worst. ^^ Peace!
I do not know about you, but I am seriously just know this phrase "FRIENDS WITH BENEFIT (FWB)" few days ago. Okay, call me a nerd or naive but seriously.. I just know that there is an existence of this kind of friend not only in the movie but for real man.. Well. I almost being the victim of it. If i can say it. Because I thought as being friend is only a friend but i guess that guy thought different thing and I am so naive to realize it. Luckily, the stage was not extreme. He just hug me and it was so suffocating! I hate it. Come on man, you wanna kill me softly, huh?
So... For some people that you might not knowing about it, as I checked in some google, it is like you are being friends for feeling so you do not have attachment on each other but you would do physical action like you are in a relationship or even the extreme stage. I just got know about it after I did a surfing and after that guy too! Kay.. I did not know how people thought about this matter but seriously, you did such people did in a relationship and there is not attachment between you guys, so means you just being a third wheel if one of you have a girl or boyfriend. For me, it is really hurting to each others. I do not think you feel numb right after you have touched each others and those hugs and kisses?
Well.. I am a lady, as in my point of view, girls are probably more disadvantage because if anything happened you are the one not virgin and could be pregnant too, and if you miscarry your baby, I bet you will be cursed in your rest of life. And what does it for? A short of fun? It is not worth at all. Well, I didnt want to blame guys too, because I read that some girls are the one who wanna do FWB relationship too. And some guys do have the soft feeling after doing such. Of course you do, if not you are not human.
I just can not believe that this kind of relationship exists in this world and surrounds me, I am just not realizing it until then. It is just my advice, if you want to do such, I guess it is just a better idea when you are in a marriage relationship or legal relationship. Well, it is good for both of you tho. He or She will not run away and broke you up easily after he or she has finished used you as for a fun. Although you can say the fun comes from both sides, but there should be another side that control it.
I can say, girl is really hard to be controlled about this kind of thing, they can be overboard than guys when they are doing "it". I think guys would be able to control their desire better than girls. Ask me why? I have no idea! HAHAHA. It is just as I know it is. So maybe it is better that the man is the one control it and able to take care of their girls. Not the one that pulled her into you deeper and make it worst. ^^ Peace!
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